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Should I try and help an Ex Girlfriend with Rx Drug Addiction?

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I dated a girl for 6 yrs and helped raise her children actually I did raise the boys for 6 yrs the past yr I noticed a big change into our relashionship Not helping out as a Family just doing her own thing and after A yr of this I Asked her to move and Offered to give her money to get an Apt She Declined and move into a Friends house , I found out what the Change was Shes Addicted to Rx Drugs and since shes moved out She lost her close friend . She Lost me . And just was fired from her job She moved in with a guy who drinks and gets wasted every night along with herself and I just found out hes leaving her to .The only reason she contacts me is for Money she claims is for the boys to buy food . So I cut all ties with her and told her leave me alone its hard to see how hard she looks and her I dont care attitude its not fare to the two boys I called my own . I offered to send her to rehab she says she has no drug addiction I said let me raise the boys she says no How should I help Them

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Written by Admin on August 26th, 2009 with 8 comments.
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#1. August 28th, 2009, at 7:06 PM.

Of course…it’s great to do that! First of all pray, God will give you the wisdom you need, poor children, poor her! May God help you do the right things!
Take good care of your soul and try to read about prayer, the prayer of the heart!

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#2. August 31st, 2009, at 7:05 PM.

Call social services. You can do this anonymously if you positive they are being neglected. Drugs are a bad thing, because it takes you down a dark road that, in the end, amounts to losing everything. I would definately stay out of it, because its impossible to help someone that won’t admit they have a problem and it’ll just bring you down. The only time she will probably come around is when she wants something from you, which is not good for you. Pray for the children and your lost friend, and move on.

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#3. September 1st, 2009, at 2:08 PM.

The only person that can help her is herself. She has to be honest with herself and face the fact that she is an addict.

What you can do is arrange an intervention with people who are closest to her – he children, parents, closest friends etc and see if you can get her to put herself through detox and rehab and rebuild her life. She will need to become a member of Narcotics Anonymous and actually follow the 12 steps if she is ever to become a whole person again.

I know this probably does not help you very much but there are a lot of support groups which you can go to to help get you through and help you make good decisions about you.

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#4. September 4th, 2009, at 11:15 PM.

You must help her even though she is ur ex-girlfriend.Think of the consequence of drug addiction.I think u know that better than me.So help that person because she needs help from someone who is close with her and thats propably you.

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#5. September 8th, 2009, at 9:04 AM.

You have done good thing by offering her to rehab.
Never give her money if you know for a fact that she is addicted.

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#6. September 11th, 2009, at 7:26 AM.

I think that you still care for her, not just her kids. If what you found out is true, then, yes you gotta help her. She needs some people who truly care to do even the ultimate or last resort to rehabilitate her. If not for her sake, at least for her children. How else can she take care of her kids if she is incapable of doing so (being jobless and addicted to rx drugs)? Its the best thing to do.

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#7. September 11th, 2009, at 11:29 AM.

If she doesn’t think she has a problem then she will never get help. She has to realize she has a problem before she can deal with it. Never believe anything that comes out of a persons mouth that is on drugs, they will straight face lie to you with no regrets, because the drugs do have control of them they don’t realize what they are doing , everything is justified and they think they are always right. When she is ready to get help then be there for her, she will need support from you and her family. It is a long hurtful journey getting the person you love off drugs. When she realizes she has a problem she can ask her physician for a medication called Suboxon it eases the withdraws and makes the cravings go away, she can only be on this medication for about 6 months, and she has to attend meetings like AA. As for the kid you need to report her actions to children services, the kid shouldn’t suffer from her wrongdoings, hopefully a family member will take him/her in. Good Luck and I really hope she realizes what she is doing and gets help.

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#8. September 13th, 2009, at 4:22 PM.

the best way to help is to tell her to get help at a rehab or at 12 step meetings

if she doesn’t do so promptly then the next best thing you can do is call child and youth services — or whatever it’s called in your area — and get those kids out of that environment!

they’ll die, even if it’s not now — if they are brought up in that atmosphere and know no other way, they’ll end up the exact same way

if she doesnt want help, she cannot be helped in any way

but save the kids, you can do so anonymously and it will give them a chance to live

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